Saturday 16 April 2011

750th Meeting : Presidential Address

(750th Meeting of Bangalore Toastmasters Club :16th April,2011)

Chief guest Fr.Francis Guntapilly,Region Advisor Marketing John Bosco Abraham,Founder president Robinson Dsouza,Founder member Siraj Ur Rehman,Past Presidents Umakanth,Aaron Watson,Rajdeep Manwani,Sumitra Manamohan, Debabrata Dutta ,Theresa Chinnappa ,Arun John Mathias,Pawas Chandra,toastmasters and distinguished guests.

At Bangalore Toastmasters, we have always lived by the concept of family. I am overwhlemed to see that huge family right in front of me. We are truly indebted for sparing your time to be part of this celebration. You are all the true champions for Bangalore Toastmasters club.I also wish to acknowledge our District Governor,Nagaraj Rao who wanted to be at this fucntion but could not due to prior engagements.He has given his wishes and blessings to us through his message in our newsletter.

By the factor of luck,chance or randomness, as I stand here to start the celebrations of our 750th meeting, I have two thoughts.

Having a colourful 750th meeting is definitely worth going for.However, I believe the heart and soul of our club lies in our regular meetings. As tall buildings cannot signfy the progress of a nation one outstanding meeting cannot make our club the best.And thats why we should excel in our regular meetings.I am grateful to my committee members who made this vision a reality.Every committee member have given their best and have done their tasks to prefection.I am proud of guys – Tony Simon,Aniket Singh,Ganesh Santhar,Elango,Arvind Dhar,Bikash Bansal and most importantly our SAA Ajay Pandey.We need to carry foward like this with the same vigour.

The second thought is on the progress we have achieved by these 750 meetings.How different are we from a club which is 25 meetings old?If we cannot show that difference these 750 meetings will become a baggage for us.In that endeavour to outclass ourselves we may sometime have to go beyond the boundaries of toastmasters international.Our theme EXPLORE_IDEATE_CHANGE talked in these lines We did exactly that for instance, when we conducted a story teling contest purely devised and modelled in Bangalore Toastmasters club.Way to go ,Bangalore toastmasters.This is just a start.

All in all , I envision the club to give maximum attention to the regualr meeting and to go way beyond the set rules so that we can raise the bar not just of Bangalore toastmasters but that of Toastmasters International as well.Toastmasters,let’s explore more.And for now let’s celebrate the moment of glory.

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Installation Ceremony : Presidential Address

(Bangalore Toastmasters Club : Jan 8,2011)

Honourable Chief guest Mr.Praful Pillay, Region Advisor Marketing John Bosco Abraham,founder members, past presidents, toastmasters and most welcomed guests.

For few of us here, the committee members, this is a momentous occasion by the privilege Bangalore Toastmasters Club bestowed. But for Bangalore toastmasters club which has seen many committees it is just another installation ceremony. The only way by which this committee can make an impact would be by its functioning in this term.

Adding a golden feather to the cap of this club is nothing less than herculean given the high standards of achievement.All the more, our club is going through one of its toughest times. Starting from the change of venue; to reduced attendance to reduced quality of meeting we had to witness many hardships during the previous term. Under the unassuming leadership of Pawas it's commendable that we still achieved all the achievable 9 goals in the President's distinguished club program by December. We kept our record intact but not without struggles . I take this occasion to appreciate toastmasters Robinson Dzousa, Rajdeep Manwani, Sumitra Manamohan, George Timothy and Anil Rego for proactively helping the committee in addressing all challenges .We still need to address these challenges and keep them aisde sooner than later—and we are the committed committee.

We are challenged but we are excited as well-excited since we get the chance to take on these challenges head on. Not every committee is blessed with such glorious opportunities.

On our way forward, dear committee members, we should not falter in the regular functioning by the level of quality this club has set itself. We shall keep our focus on one meeting at a time -- one meeting--ensuring that the best toastmasters club produce the best toastmaster meeting. Even when we keep this as the bare minimum goal we shall not shy away from setting ambitious targets.The ambitious theme the committee wants to set forth for the term is EXPLORE; IDEATE; CHANGE. Explore into new horizons of life, gather new knowledge; ideate on the new knowledge gained and bring about changes in the world around us using our communication and leadership skills. This committee shall help its members in EXPLORING. We shall bring in eminent people from different walks of life at least one every month so that we can learn from their experience and explore into their arena. The onus to IDEATE and bring about CHANGE is on every one of us.

The committee has its promise not to let any one of us down, not just in this EXPLORATION but in any virtuous need you may have. YES, you heard me right-- any need. Because the seed of Bangalore toastmasters club germinated more strongly on the soil called family rather than communication skill or leadership skill. The founder members would vouch for it. This committee will try to uphold this tradition of family in Bangalore toastmasters club over and beyond anything. It is only in the equations of family love that any communication skill or leadership skill can be found.


Presidential Address : 725th Meeting : Shall We Dance?

(725th Meeting of Bangalore Toastmasters Club : September 10, 2010)

Region Advisor Marketing John Bosco Abraham,District Governor Nagaraj Rao, Founder members Robison and Siraj,past presidents ,toastmasters and most welcomed guests..

Today we are writing in golden letters a new chapter into the histroy of Bangalore Toastmasters Club.Today we are celebrating 725 weeks of toil and hard work.Today we have every right to celebrate.

Bangalore Toastmasters started its journey in the early 1997 with four gentlemen-Robinson, Siraj, Claudius and Anil Rego as it pioneers.Down the lane, the torch of leadership and communication was passed onto no less passionate people.In the true spirit of toastmasters “Leaders create Leaders” one leader led to the other with the club getting stronger and stronger by every succession.In every department we have made the flag of District 82 fly high.In leadership track, the first ever Region Advisor from the district comes from our club-our won John Bosco.In the communication track we have put our marks at the highest levels.Dr.Rajdeep Manwani was our cursador—be it humourous speech,evaluation contest or impromptu speaking.Nothing more could have been asked when the biggest achievement our district ever had was brought about by the essence of Bangalore Toastmasters—Aaron Watson.You and I have seen him grow.After the International Speech contest,California Aaron Watson has emerged as one among the top 25 speakers in the world.

The highly achieving Bangalore Toastmasters Club we heard about is the sweat, blood and passion of its founder members, past presidents and the past committees. The gratitude we show to their commitment is the promise that we shall never let them down. We shall not immerse ourselves in the sea of celebration and get submerged like the titanic. Nevertheless, this momentous occasion is an hour of merriment for us. We shall sing,dance and romance. If you have danced with your partner you would have experienced this—when the partners make those steps they look into each others eyes. They read the dreams out of each others eyes. At our dance floor today, we will witness toastmasters from all genres of life dancing together; looking into each others eyes ;reading the dreams. The past leaders of our club have the dream to see club achieving greater heights. The present members have the dream that the past leaders will hand hold them and would be there to guide them always.Lets acknowledge each others dreams.I also extend my warm welcome to our guests to hop into this chariot as we race onto the stars—singing and dancing.

Wednesday 16 December 2009

The Curse of Russia

(Speech 7-9 min Project 5 from Storytelling Manual)

Year 1905.Russia was shuddering in the extreme cold snowfalls. So were the people from the cold blooded rule of Tsar Nicholas II and his Empress Tsaritsa Alexandra. Having food once in a day was considered an extravagant luxury. Those who dared to raise a little finger against the Tsar were brutally oppressed and deported to Siberia. While the rebels, handcuffed and chained, were transported to Siberia with hundreds jammed in one truck, they exchanged a name of hope. Clanging their chains in symphony they sang the name aloud—Karl Marx. Inspired by this name, the rebels had given many inflictions to the tyrants, the Tsars. The latest was the assassination of the elder son of Nicholas II. But a more mind shattering news awaited the Tsars--their second child Alexei met with an accident. It was not done by the rebels but the damage was no less. Alexei had very little life left in him. The search for a doctor who could bring him back to life extended to every nook and corner of the country. No one could improve the condition of Alexei.
Fellow Toastmasters and distinguished guests: good evening.
The Russian palace was decorated beautifully. The ways to the palace were red carpeted. Even when their second child is lying ill, Tsars were getting ready to receive the special guest. The royal cart drawn by five horses brought in the guest--an ugly looking man with protruded nose, elongated head and shabbily kept long beard. This man was brought to the palace from the outskirts by the royal army men who believed this man had amazing power to heal Alexei. The man whose fiery eyes gave a glimpse of his talent was Rasputin.


Tsar Nicholas II and his Empress Tsaritsa Alexandra ceremoniously welcomed Rasputin to the palace. He was escorted to the room of Alexei.3 days of undisturbed chanting went by. At the end of third day Rasputin came out trembling with high fever and sweating. Seeing Rasputin, Alexandra asked crying “How is my child” .Rasputin turned to her and said “I defeated death. Alexei will live long”
“O saviour, saviour of my child, saviour of this entire empire” said Alexandra and knelt down before Rasputin. It was the kneeling down of a great empire. The ascent of Rasputin in the Russian palace was rapid. He easily disposed off the officials whom he didn’t like. His control spread to all avenues of power. His prophesy’s was unchallenged even by the Tsar himself. He once said to the Tsar “Your Highness, if you yourself don’t lead the war from the front, the consequences will be catastrophic”. Tsar Nicholas II replied “Saviour, your prophecies will save this nation. I will go and lead the war”. Against the custom, the Tsar went to lead a war. When the Tsar was away, with firm support from his faithful devotee Tsaritsa Alexandra, Rasputin became omnipotent. The palace officials were turned into marionettes, marionettes whose threads had been taken firmly in hand by Rasputin. Even the princely families so close to the palace were neglected. Further worse was the licentious behaviour of Rasputin. He was a mad sex animal. He lured all beautiful women to sleep with him. In families of those who objected, death came as an uninvited visitor. Even the princely women were not spared from the vicious clutches of Rasputin. Unrest grew among the princes and in one their discreet meeting, Prince Yusupov growled “We can hope to regain someday the money and power we lost. But, how about the dignity that is lost? ” Yusupov wanted his pride to be redeemed and his friends were in support of his view. But he knew that he could not do it like the rebels who were inspired by Karl Marx. Born with a silver spoon in mouth, he could not go to the streets and throw a bomb at Rasputin. Further, being in the princely family the support of the browbeaten common man could not be expected. He had to find a way of his own to save the esteem of mothers, sisters and daughters of his community. He feigned as a supporter of Rasputin. Yusupov gradually befriended him. He realized that the real stories of Rasputin were much more dreaded than the stories that he had heard. Rasputin came to Yusupov’s house once. He was enticed to see Mrs. Yusupov beautiful like a wild flower flowing in the Volga River. Rasputin was more than excited when he was invited to a dinner on a later day. Yusupov informed his trusted friends and they came to his house on the D-day when Rasputin will join the Yusupov family for dinner. All of these friends kept waiting in the first floor. Their impatience was growing but finally was relieved to hear the arrival of Rasputin.


The dinner table was full of mouth watering food and wine items. Still, the hungry eyes of Rasputin feasted on Mrs Yusupov. Yusupov had poisoned certain food items which he cleverly avoided eating. Meanwhile, Rasputin ate all food garrulously but he was intact. The mixture of wine and poison inebriated him to a high level—yes the poison that could kill 5 people. Yusupov trembled. He knew his plan was failing. He excused himself for a while, consulted secretly his friends in the first floor and came back with a revolver. He came behind Rasputin and fired a shot at him. Being shot at, Rasputin turned and grabbed Yusupov by his neck. He ominously whispered in Yusupov's ear "you bad boy" and attempted to strangle him. Yusupov screamed as he struggled like a chicken in the hands of eagle. Hearing the noise, his friends rushed from the first floor and fired 3 more gunshots at Rasputin. Yusupov was saved and the devil himself fell to the ground. . As they neared his body, they found that Rasputin was still alive, struggling to get up. They took huge logs, clubbed him into submission and castrated him. After binding his body and wrapping him in a carpet, they threw him into the icy Neva River with a stone attached. He broke out of his bonds and the carpet wrapping him, but drowned in the river. Three days later when his body was found it was confirmed by autopsy that his reason of death was drowning. While Rasputin got ceremonial burial from the Tsars, Prince Yusupov was deported. However, the tides of revolution raised by Yusupov and many others ensured the end of the cruel Tsar rule by the mighty Russian revolution. After the successful February revolution the workers took the cremated body of Rasputin from the palace cemetery and burnt it in the nearby woods.
When power and money accumulates in one individual, it endangers the rest, like Rasputin did. It holds true even today.
Over to you, toastmaster

(The story of Rasputin put here is based on my readings on the matter from various sources.Hence some parts may be inspired.The write up is based on my understanding of history;the veracity of which may be verified from acknowledged history textbooks)

Across Seven Oceans

(Speech 6-8 min. Project 4 from Story Telling Manual)

Happily settled, Rita had a feeling of well being. Her son and daughter were married and settled. A sense of satisfaction gleamed on her face as she brushed back her hair with fingers. Her hair had gone little more grey than expected for a 55 year old, though she had only little worries. The worries she had were that her son with his family was settled in UK and her daughter with her family was away in US. Also Rita’s lovely husband had started getting little senile. However, the growth of her children from a middle class family in Kodaku village to reach the pinnacles of success across seven oceans pleased her.
Good morning fellow toastmasters and distinguished guests.
Her dreams were crammed with her daughter’s four year old baby girl, though she had not seen her. She thought of the bubbly little girl running around, talking without a break and engaged in naughty things. She could imagine the thrill of the little girl to be with her cute new born younger sister, the second child of her daughter. The dream made Rita’s eyes shine like a marble.


“Tring, Tring…..Tring, Tring”—the telephone rings broke her reverie. She was excited to hear her daughter from US on the other end of the phone. A little into the enchanting conversation her daughter asked “Mom, why don’t you come and stay with us”. Stuffed with happiness Rita’s words could rarely escape her throat. Like a young child she played with wire of the telephone. She was happy to go but her husband’s health was of some concern…….The urge for her to be with her grandchildren was so much. Even her husband was so happy for her and did not allow her to worry too much on him. Despite resistance from her dear husband, she forcefully, got a close relative to stay with him and look after him. The preparations for the trip began. She even packed different varieties of pickles for her daughter. Her husband was there on the forefront making all arrangements. She cross checked everything and ensured things were right. She didn’t want to make trouble for her daughter with some mistakes from her side. Her eyes fell upon her luggage. ‘Rita Shinge’ the tag on her luggage read. A small wink blended in gladness escaped her eyes…
She had fears of the first time flight but no hiccups occurred. New York City and her daughter were ready to welcome her. Rita was filled with affection on seeing her daughter, thrilled by the sophistication of the city and chilled by the cold weather. On getting home, her long cherished dreams were getting realized. She saw her dreamy eyed grand daughter running around. With her straight hair, cheesy cheeks and charming smile–the little girl was an angel. She was also so elated to see the sleeping new born baby. Few days went by and the servant of the house was sent off. Rita had to take care of the new born baby. Months flew by. The tasks were getting difficult and difficult. It was so tiresome for her. She could bear no more. She fully understood that she was brought here as a cheap option of a servant—by her own daughter. She wanted to leave. The reminiscence of pride she enjoyed back home hurt her a lot. However, the love for her daughter and the immense need to be with her new generation made her linger on amidst the difficulties.

Almost 2 years of extreme sacrifice of this real motherhood went on. Then one day out of thin air Rita’s daughter came and told her. “Mom, from next week the baby would be sent to preschool. So you won’t be required to look after her. You can go back to India”. A stunned silence was all Rita could manage. Destiny was cruel indeed. The word ‘Mom’ has attained a different meaning. She is no more useful. She has become a cow that could not be milked anymore and is being sold off. The rejection she felt was miserable. She recouped herself and got ready to get back to India. She was ready to get back to India. Then her son called her. It was an invite to visit to his home at UK. His wife was 8 months pregnant. Her son wanted Rita to be with his wife. Anger fired up in her. But the fire died down inside her only. It was her beloved son. All her life, she had done nothing for her; she had gained nothing for her, lived not even a single moment for her. It was all for her husband and children. A life sacrificed in kitchen for others. What she could offer is just the motherly love. Having offered it life long she cannot deny it now. She agreed to go to UK to her son’s place where her help was needed. At least it was good for her as her husband’s health had not deteriorated much. The plan to go back to India changed and the ticket was booked to London instead. She packed the things with a stoic feeling. Her eyes forced upon her to read the tag “Rita Shinge’ in the luggage. Nothing but a cold emotionless stare was all it could it produce. She waved goodbye to her daughter’s family. Her six year grand daughter asked her. “Why are you leaving? You got a better job”.

Over to you, toastmaster.

Wednesday 9 December 2009

The Lovely Deer

(Speech 4-6 min.Project 3 from Story Telling Manual.This speech was delivered at Symphony Market Solutions)

There was a lion, a dangerous lion in a forest. He had incessant pain on one of his legs. Hence, he could not go far for hunting .He used to hunt and feed on animals that came through the way of his cave. He survived on poor animals that were ignorant to come through that way .But he was made to survive on animals from other forest as one wise deer from his forest came to know this. He informed to this everyone in the forest and saved lives of many.
Fellow toastmasters and distinguished guests: good evening.
Not only that this deer was wise, he was handsome and robust too. Such an iconic figure would easily get a lover from his own forest. Ironically,his lady love was from a different forest.

As with anybody his across the boarder love was a game with fire. The marriage could never happen with everyone’s consent. Consent of people who marry is important and not of others. They decided to get married by their own. He went to the giraffe priest of the temple in the lady deer’s forest. He was lucky enough to get a rare auspicious occasion in the near future only. The time was 5 am in the morning and things would be over before anyone wakes up. The priest agreed to come at 5 am, the bride agreed to come it was comparatively easy as the temple was near to her and the stag was more than happy to be there. But his lady love had a word of caution for him. “Don’t tell this to anybody. If anybody comes to know, things will leak out and my parents will come to know about it. Then, as you can imagine this marriage will never happen. You know that my parents are dead against in getting married off to a different forest. I will be married off to someone other, the instant they come to know of this” Everything was set and the day of marriage came. The deer woke up early and was ready at 2.30 am .In fact it was a long journey as he had to travel for 2 hours. He prayed to the Gods and started but then he realised that he forgot to make the customary nuptial chain which is to be made of gold. He was in trouble .He rushed to his friend goldsmith elephant and woke him up and told him the need. The elephant was so helpful. He tried his best and the mandatory golden chain was ready.It took took 2 hours,though.

There was just half an hour to the marriage and he had to travel for 2 hours to reach the temple. There was no way he could reach there and if he don’t reach there, his lady love's parents will come to know of the plan and then he will never be able to marry his dear one. He could not afford to miss his beloved, his heart, his soul. He knew if he could manage to run through the lane where the lame lion is living he could reach the temple in half an hour. But it’s very dangerous . There is a chance however the lion can be sleeping as well in this early morning hours. Nothing, not even the danger for his own life could make the deer think about separation with his lover. She is his beloved. He took the risk and started running through that dangerous lane. He was puffing and panting, still he ran like a wind when he was near the lion’s cave. He passed the cave and there was a little sigh of relief though his speed of running never reduced. Suddenly a forceful arm hit his neck. The claws went deep into his neck, blood spurted out. As he meekly turned his head he saw the open jaws of the lion. His lover’s lovely face went by flashing and it was pitch black all over.
Friends: if things are not well planned, we may also be forced to take unrealistic risks.
Over to you toastmaster.

Sunday 6 December 2009

Going Home

(Speech 6-8 min.Project 2 from the Story telling Manual.This speech was delivered at the Microsoft Speechweavers Club)

Bangalore is ready for Christmas yet again. Still I vividly remember my home going during last Christmas. Fellow toastmasters and distinguished guests: a warm good evening to one and all.

I was excited to go to my home in Kerala. I was more excited in driving my brand new car to home. The shining grey colour of my i10 gave a cooling effect to my eyes. I was raring to go behind the wheel of the lovely vehicle. At around 9 pm, I got in the car and waved good bye to my friends. As my friend’s looked on, a lovely smile adorned my lips and in a synchronized fashion my right leg pressed on the accelerator. Loud music reverberated inside the car resembling the mood of my mind. It’s a long drive of 500 km to my home but I will be in solitude enjoying my car all the way, all throughout the enticing night. The thrill of going for a long distance for the first time spiced things up. My prancing horse sailed through the Bangalore-Coimbatore-Kerala highway. I was proud to have this horse as the first valuable thing I earned for myself in life. After three hours of pleasurable driving with few fun filled over takings, I rightly got the turn I must take for the short cut route to Coimbatore via Mettur.

Ten minutes down the road, I saw a person showing hands to stop. A policeman!! .Confidently I stopped the car and showed him the documents including the temporary registration. “Where is the RC book?”- he asked me in cold tone. “RC book...? Oh, Sir this is a newly registered car. I will get it after 60 days” perplexedly I answered. A much harsh and stern reply came “Don’t you know that vehicles without RC book cannot be driven through highway”. Even till date I don’t know this. There, I could get over my ignorance only because of Gandhiji.A smiling face of Gandhi in a 500 rupees note saved me. I was frustrated and felt cheated .A feeling of helplessness covered my face while I drove on. I was tired and decided to grab a quick cup of coffee to refreshen myself. I parked my car in the side of the first tea shop I saw. I had the coffee, paid the cash and left without bothering to ask the route to the 2 locals I found there. I pulled on the door knob, and it was locked. I inserted my hands into the right and the left pockets of the trouser. Alas, the key was missing!!!. I tried all the four doors and all were tightly locked. I had kept the key inside the car and kept the ignition on. I knew then that it would have got automatically locked. With the spare key also inside the car, I tried in desperation to reach the Hyundai service which went unanswered. I was stuck in a totally strange place, in the middle of the night with nobody I know to come for my help. I remembered the numerous times in which I opened the door of Santro by pushing a scale inside the door along the glass of the window. This used to push a knob and the lock used to open. I wanted to apply the same trick. But I had no scale or thin substance that would go in. I asked the tea shopper and he too did not have it. My eyes closed down in helplessness. I asked the shop keeper whether he had a screwdriver and luckily he had it. Little hope, a very little hope came back to me. I went to the back of the car and unscrewed the plastic number plate. I inserted the number plate through the window and pushed it down in the hope that some knob would be pushed and the door will be unlocked. Much to my disappointment it didn’t happen. My exercise continued with the other doors as well but the result remained the same. I knew if it didn’t work out I will have to break the glass of my lovely i10.Whilst I looked on the mighty posture of the classy car shining in the moonlight, my lower eye lids pushed one drop of water back into my eyes.


I was in no mood to give up. I furiously gave further attempts with the number plate. I heard few shouts at my back and when I turned back I saw the two locals behind me. I could make out that they were saying that I was trying to steal this car. They were there, when I came; but still…. Suddenly the two guys grasped my hands from behind. The number plate fell off my hand.I writhed in their mighty clutch. In a swift surprise motion I pushed them back. I ran to the right side of the car through the back of the car. I gave a strong jab into the back window glass with my clenched right fist. The glass broke down. I inserted my hand inside the car through the broken window,ulocked the door,opened it, entered into the car and locked it. Inside the car, from the back seat I pushed myself into the driver’s seat .With the corner of my eyes I could see one hand coming inside the car through the broken window and my ears were filled with the hooligans’ shouting. Before I really sat in the seat, the key turned, and my right foot jammed the accelerator . With the hand break on, the car almost jumped up as it moved forward. I could sense the rowdy desperately pulling his hand out of the car as it fled from the spot. Flooded in sweat, I realized a thicker blood have covered my fist. But something much thicker covered my heart as I drove on the car with a broken window and a missing number plate. Yes, my brand new shining i10.


Over to you toastmaster.

(Above is a story partly based on my experience)